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Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
Kinda like most of this thread I do just as everyone here does, post as I see fit. But that doesn't mean that there isn't an unending supply of empty rhetoric spewed around this BBS. "I hate that (insert yer bestest pal you've never met here) got banned, but I just have to use that red x from time to time" is pure hypocrisy. Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
Sirius B Send message Joined: 26 Dec 00 Posts: 24879 Credit: 3,081,182 RAC: 7 |
Sorry Rush, I have come across threads where I liked what the posters were saying & politely joined in. So far, many of the posters have welcomed me with open arms. However, saying that, I have also come across numerous threads that were very thought provoking, but did not join in due to the unnecssary flaming which I thought was getting well out of hand. My action was to simply ignore those threads & join in the ones that I felt were acceptable. For example, there were several threads where Ice & Crunchy made several replies to a topic which were very well said, only for them to get flamed. So your answer of as everyone else does is BS. If I find a topic personally unacceptable, I do not post a reply & look for a thread that I can participate in. Also, I do not post just for the hell of it!!! |
cRunchy Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3555 Credit: 1,920,030 RAC: 3 |
... SNIP ... I'm trying to understand what you are saying. Are you saying that KenzieB (or anyone) was banned because she was Red X'ed by some of those who now offer her their best wishes? That would be hypocrisy if it were true. Did I misunderstand you? |
Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
Sorry Rush, I have come across threads where I liked what the posters were saying & politely joined in. So far, many of the posters have welcomed me with open arms. Good. More power to you. Welcome. However, saying that, I have also come across numerous threads that were very thought provoking, but did not join in due to the unnecssary flaming which I thought was getting well out of hand. True, a lot of people here let their emotions run away with them, whether it's a Don Quixote-like quest (a regular occurrence), or they don't like how something is phrased, or they don't agree with what was posted, or, when they actually are attacked. My action was to simply ignore those threads & join in the ones that I felt were acceptable. For example, there were several threads where Ice & Crunchy made several replies to a topic which were very well said, only for them to get flamed. Ah, so you posted as you saw fit. You took the reasons that were sufficient for you and you used them in deciding to post. "Flaming" really is in the eye of the beholder. Disagreement doesn't necessarily mean flames. So your answer of as everyone else does is BS. If I find a topic personally unacceptable, I do not post a reply & look for a thread that I can participate in. It's not a collective, I didn't mean it that way. I don't post because "of as everyone else does," I post as I see fit. Not as you see fit. Not as everyone else sees fit. I didn't find the topic personally unacceptable. I posted as I saw fit, which is the not the same as posting as a collective sees fit. Your reasoning behind a specific post may differ from mine, but you are still using your reasoning to do so--which is exactly what I do. In other words, I do just what everyone else does, post as I see fit. Also, I do not post just for the hell of it!!! Well, you had better get used to posters doing that. It's endless here. Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
Sarge Send message Joined: 25 Aug 99 Posts: 12273 Credit: 8,569,109 RAC: 79 |
... SNIP ... You did not misunderstand him. Rush, when did people ask for the red-X option? It has been present for as long as I can remember during my time posting. I take issue with calling the red-X a way for posters to control other posters. Do you include in this something such as "Look, if my very similar post got moderated, then this one should not remain, either"? That "similar post" could be from anybody: friend, foe or stranger. What about red-X'ing your own post? Or the fact that kenzieB asked for her posts to be red-X'd? This does not fall under one poster exercising control over another. If anything, it might indicate one poster failing, temporarily, to exercise self-control. Capitalize on this good fortune, one word can bring you round ... changes. |
Sirius B Send message Joined: 26 Dec 00 Posts: 24879 Credit: 3,081,182 RAC: 7 |
Now that was well said. I understand & you made valid points. I can also understand the differnece between disagreements & flaming. That's what life is all about - agreeing to disagree. Without this fact we would never be able to accomplish anything. Regardless on whether or not we agree/disagree with another person, surely we are human enough to realise when a reply is well said, to be able to acknowledge that even though one may disagree. Take yourself for example, there have been several posts by you which I have read which I totally disagreed with, but your reply with regards to the topic was very well said. I did not see any reply that acknowledged that fact. you will see this from me. So again, very well said. |
Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
I'm trying to understand what you are saying. cRunch, yes. There are people here (plenty) that use the red x and then complain when people are banned, or their personal posts are cut, et cetera. That's pure hypocrisy. First it was the negative ratings and the big ole' marys couldn't handle that. Oh jeebus did they whine about that, "I got -1'ed! I got -1'ed!" Then they (hilariously) formed little battle groups of Don Quixotes to -1 the hell out of posts of people whom they perceived had wronged them. To keep track, I would give each lil' battleball the most accurate and descriptive name that I could, except that I had to give that up because every single time the name was always "The Don Quixotes." So then the -1 was removed, and instead, they all started e-mailing, writing, and calling the scientists who work for the project, whining about all the minutia (utterly unrelated to the project) that deeply bothered them. It seems they wanted their thin skins to be supplicated at every turn, never quite understanding that this is the natural result. Their friends get banned, their enemies get banned. Their enemies get the posts deleted, their own personal posts get deleted. Then they start the empty rhetoric threads, where they public and loudly prostrate themselves in front of the Altar of Scientists and Those Who Proclaimed That This Time They are Leaving For GOOD. "Oh dear Jeebus, please don't go, because I'll never be able to hand virtual coffee to anyone else!!! Well, virtually anyone else. Until at least 5 minutes from now." All this stuff is the direct result of their begging of the Scientists to appoint "moderators" and their use of the red x. Yes, that's pure hypocrisy. Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
Rush, when did people ask for the red-X option? It has been present for as long as I can remember during my time posting. If they use it, it's the same thing. I'm sure it was here when whathisname designed the code for the forum. When the ratings buttons were removed I said they should remove the red x and then utterly ignore nearly every single e-mail concerning the boards. I take issue with calling the red-X a way for posters to control other posters. Do you include in this something such as "Look, if my very similar post got moderated, then this one should not remain, either"? That "similar post" could be from anybody: friend, foe or stranger. Sarge, complaining that your post was moderated is a perfectly valid complaint. Red x'ing to get someone else's post nailed because yours was is wrong. What about red-X'ing your own post? Or the fact that kenzieB asked for her posts to be red-X'd? This does not fall under one poster exercising control over another. If anything, it might indicate one poster failing, temporarily, to exercise self-control. Sure, you can red x your own post, just like you can e-mail the admins asking to be banned, just like you can sign yourself into a mental clinic. It's only a problem when you use it to try and control what other people post because you don't like them, or what they posted, or their sense of humor, or you are sensitive to a particular topic. Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
Regardless on whether or not we agree/disagree with another person, surely we are human enough to realise when a reply is well said, to be able to acknowledge that even though one may disagree. Thank you Patrick, but don't worry about it. We don't ever have to agree, you have to live your life reasoning as you see fit, just as we all do. Enjoy your time here. And try to leave the "eff" word out. 8^] Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
Sirius B Send message Joined: 26 Dec 00 Posts: 24879 Credit: 3,081,182 RAC: 7 |
[quote Enjoy your time here. And try to leave the "eff" word out. 8^] [/quote] No problems - By the way, point taken. PJ |
John Clark Send message Joined: 29 Sep 99 Posts: 16515 Credit: 4,418,829 RAC: 0 |
[quote Enjoy your time here. And try to leave the "eff" word out. 8^] No problems - By the way, point taken. PJ[/quote] Patrick This is Rush all over. Just ignore him, but he won't go away. If you cannot ignore him then place him on filter. You will need his user ID number to achieve the latter. It's good to be back amongst friends and colleagues |
Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
This is Rush all over. Just ignore him, but he won't go away. Or choose the more intellectually honest route and keep your mind open to other points of view that you don't agree with. Which seems to be the route you have chosen. Well done. Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
John Clark Send message Joined: 29 Sep 99 Posts: 16515 Credit: 4,418,829 RAC: 0 |
Patrick, I would agree with Chris It's good to be back amongst friends and colleagues |
Al Send message Joined: 4 Oct 99 Posts: 5832 Credit: 401,935 RAC: 0 |
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Rush Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3131 Credit: 302,569 RAC: 0 |
Patrick, Ah, two more bits of wisdom and brilliance! It's almost like they're saying nothing whatsoever at all, except that, well, ummmm, except that... except that, uh, well, sorry. Except that nothing. They are saying nothing at all. Maybe here is where I should start whining about how my thread wasn't what I intended and then I should start red x'ing posts? Cordially, Rush elrushbo2@theobviousgmail.com Remove the obvious... |
Sarge Send message Joined: 25 Aug 99 Posts: 12273 Credit: 8,569,109 RAC: 79 |
Patrick, Or walk away, leaving people to reflect on your words? Capitalize on this good fortune, one word can bring you round ... changes. |
Sarge Send message Joined: 25 Aug 99 Posts: 12273 Credit: 8,569,109 RAC: 79 |
Or walk away, leaving people to reflect on your words? I doubt I have ever confused Rush, just agreed or disagreed with him. Capitalize on this good fortune, one word can bring you round ... changes. |
Sirius B Send message Joined: 26 Dec 00 Posts: 24879 Credit: 3,081,182 RAC: 7 |
If we all had the same point of view, thoughts, lifestyles, work, what a sad boring world this would be. Whether we like it or not, people are people & whether they are intelligent or dumb, remember this: - A broken clock is right twice per day. My motto is "give all the benefit of the doubt" & if they are stupid enough, they will eventually hang themselves. As i've already said to KenzieB, my middle name is" Serenity" |
cRunchy Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 3555 Credit: 1,920,030 RAC: 3 |
Snips... I like this more :o) My grandfather was a clock maker That's a cool saying Patrick. |
Dr. C.E.T.I. Send message Joined: 29 Feb 00 Posts: 16019 Credit: 794,685 RAC: 0 |
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