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Message 590896 - Posted: 23 Jun 2007, 3:24:48 UTC

is this true? all this banning about hugging in disney world and in Gestapo? it just seems so wacked i cant beieve it!!!!
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Message 592267 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 4:02:08 UTC - in response to Message 590896.  

is this true? all this banning about hugging in disney world and in Gestapo? it just seems so wacked i cant beieve it!!!!


Yes, unfortunately. Who knows what's next. In the future, maybe looking?



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Message 592294 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 6:22:22 UTC - in response to Message 592267.  

is this true? all this banning about hugging in disney world and in Gestapo? it just seems so wacked i cant beieve it!!!!


Yes, unfortunately. Who knows what's next. In the future, maybe looking?




Ask anyone who frequents bars/pubs and they'll tell you that the wrong amount of eye contact can get you into a fight.

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Message 592296 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 6:29:51 UTC - in response to Message 590112.  


I guess Dirty Dancing at the school prom is out, then?


Never did me any harm ;)


Hehe, wow, I bet that was fun.

Well that depends. If it's non-touching dirty dancing, it might be allowed. But I don't know, it could still be too much for American schools.


Non-touching dirty dancing is an oxymoron, its just dancing.

Try coming to some British school balls, then you'll see what dirty dancing really is.
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Message 592300 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 6:37:35 UTC - in response to Message 589419.  

School penalizes students for hugs, high-fives

.....Unlike some schools in the Washington area, which ban fighting or inappropriate touching, Kilmer Middle School in Vienna bans all touching — and that has some parents lobbying for a change.....

....."I think hugging is a good thing," said Hal, a seventh-grader. "I put my arm around her. It was like for 15 seconds. I didn't think it would be a big deal.".....




I have worked in schools that have 'no physical contact' rules between pupils. I think if you spent time in schools you would understand why they have felt the need to do this. Especially for teenagers, who will argue every little thing. If you have a blanket no touching rule then you can't get the endless arguments of "we were just hugging"/"he or she is exaggerating how much that hurt"/"it was a play fight miss"/"I only put the knife in a little way" type of chat back you get shortly after some kid has been injured.

I totally understand it. It is not fair..but trust me..teenagers neither understand or respect fair and most of the time they don't deserve it. Parents totally fail to understand what their sweet children become the minute they are out of their loving gaze.
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Message 592302 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 6:49:55 UTC - in response to Message 592300.  

I have worked in schools that have 'no physical contact' rules between pupils.

Good rule... Someone could lose an eyeball... ;)
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Message 592309 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 7:08:57 UTC - in response to Message 592294.  

is this true? all this banning about hugging in disney world and in Gestapo? it just seems so wacked i cant beieve it!!!!


Yes, unfortunately. Who knows what's next. In the future, maybe looking?




Ask anyone who frequents bars/pubs and they'll tell you that the wrong amount of eye contact can get you into a fight.


lol. That's happened at my school. I do try to avoid making serious eye contact while at bars or pubs. Those are places where you gotta be careful.



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Message 592316 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 7:40:39 UTC - in response to Message 592296.  


I guess Dirty Dancing at the school prom is out, then?


Never did me any harm ;)


Hehe, wow, I bet that was fun.

Well that depends. If it's non-touching dirty dancing, it might be allowed. But I don't know, it could still be too much for American schools.


Non-touching dirty dancing is an oxymoron, its just dancing.

Try coming to some British school balls, then you'll see what dirty dancing really is.


I thought dirty dancing was called "dirty" because it involved physical contact that was sexually suggestive. By non-touching I was thinking of it being done without the touching, but with the suggestiveness.

Are you saying that the dancing in British school balls gets really racy? lol, well, from my experience in American schools, I'd describe the dancing as more subdued.



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Message 592333 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 8:42:41 UTC - in response to Message 592300.  
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School penalizes students for hugs, high-fives

.....Unlike some schools in the Washington area, which ban fighting or inappropriate touching, Kilmer Middle School in Vienna bans all touching — and that has some parents lobbying for a change.....

....."I think hugging is a good thing," said Hal, a seventh-grader. "I put my arm around her. It was like for 15 seconds. I didn't think it would be a big deal.".....




I have worked in schools that have 'no physical contact' rules between pupils. I think if you spent time in schools you would understand why they have felt the need to do this. Especially for teenagers, who will argue every little thing. If you have a blanket no touching rule then you can't get the endless arguments of "we were just hugging"/"he or she is exaggerating how much that hurt"/"it was a play fight miss"/"I only put the knife in a little way" type of chat back you get shortly after some kid has been injured.

I totally understand it. It is not fair..but trust me..teenagers neither understand or respect fair and most of the time they don't deserve it. Parents totally fail to understand what their sweet children become the minute they are out of their loving gaze.


You make a logical case. It just seems so excessive to me. I can understand the necessity to protect students/pupils. But, even with rules like this one, students can still be mistreated or harassed by other students. Words can sometimes hurt much more than a touch. I would much more prefer that schools try to understand the almost separate society that students live in. In that society bruises will last for days, but words can last forever.
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Message 592384 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 12:30:25 UTC - in response to Message 592333.  

School penalizes students for hugs, high-fives

.....Unlike some schools in the Washington area, which ban fighting or inappropriate touching, Kilmer Middle School in Vienna bans all touching — and that has some parents lobbying for a change.....

....."I think hugging is a good thing," said Hal, a seventh-grader. "I put my arm around her. It was like for 15 seconds. I didn't think it would be a big deal.".....




I have worked in schools that have 'no physical contact' rules between pupils. I think if you spent time in schools you would understand why they have felt the need to do this. Especially for teenagers, who will argue every little thing. If you have a blanket no touching rule then you can't get the endless arguments of "we were just hugging"/"he or she is exaggerating how much that hurt"/"it was a play fight miss"/"I only put the knife in a little way" type of chat back you get shortly after some kid has been injured.

I totally understand it. It is not fair..but trust me..teenagers neither understand or respect fair and most of the time they don't deserve it. Parents totally fail to understand what their sweet children become the minute they are out of their loving gaze.


You make a logical case. It just seems so excessive to me. I can understand the necessity to protect students/pupils. But, even with rules like this one, students can still be mistreated or harassed by other students. Words can sometimes hurt much more than a touch. I would much more prefer that schools try to understand the almost separate society that students live in. In that society bruises will last for days, but words can last forever.

This is very true, as I have seen it over and over again, and sometimes even by teachers as well. It all shows how fragile we all are as human beings.
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Message 592449 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 16:49:12 UTC - in response to Message 592333.  

Words can sometimes hurt much more than a touch.

When they implement the 'no talking' rule, can we extend that to include the 'work force' as well... ;)
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Message 592463 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 17:41:46 UTC
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"I only put the knife in a little way"


*Cracks up laughing!* Oh Es, you do have such a way with words. Though I wonder if you're actually joking!

What happens if they hug the teacher?
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Message 592465 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 17:55:23 UTC - in response to Message 592463.  

"I only put the knife in a little way"


*Cracks up laughing!* Oh Es, you do have such a way with words. Though I wonder if you're actually joking!

What happens if they hug the teacher?

Then you check your pockets after to see what is missing.

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Message 592574 - Posted: 25 Jun 2007, 22:39:00 UTC

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Message 592622 - Posted: 26 Jun 2007, 0:44:42 UTC

Just let the darlings just try that one.

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Message 592649 - Posted: 26 Jun 2007, 1:25:06 UTC - in response to Message 592622.  

Just let the darlings just try that one.

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Message 592659 - Posted: 26 Jun 2007, 1:45:04 UTC

Rush's last post seems ... mysterious and uncharacteristic.
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Message 592687 - Posted: 26 Jun 2007, 2:50:51 UTC - in response to Message 592622.  

I have a black belt in the meter stick.

You might want to keep that thing handy...

And carry a spare, or two... ;)
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