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Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
I tend to agree with Dogbytes. If you wish to put the post down, put it down after 30th May. And a small note for Brian Silvers....try to be a little more optimistic please. If you're a parent who went through some sort of ordeal with your child, you'll understand. Cheers |
Brian Silvers Send message Joined: 11 Jun 99 Posts: 1681 Credit: 492,052 RAC: 0 |
I tend to agree with Dogbytes. If you wish to put the post down, put it down after 30th May. And a small note for Brian Silvers....try to be a little more optimistic please. If you're a parent who went through some sort of ordeal with your child, you'll understand. Breaking what I said, since I was brought up directly: As I said, people would consider me "cold and heartless". Being told to be "more optimistic" is a kinder, gentler derivative of that... The "you'd understand if you've been through it" stuff is presumptuous and somewhat offensive, but I'm going to let it go. I've been used to getting told similar things when I tell people that they should check into these claims before forwarding emails about. The typical response is "I was just doing a good deed, I don't see why you're upset" or "JUST HIT THE DELETE IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT!!!", the anger oozing out from them... Optimism is that the child becomes well, to which I am eternally hopeful. My position on the snail mail is one of pragmatic realism. He has no chance of beating the record, because Guinness has disallowed competition in that category due to the damages caused by Shergold's attempt. Due to the human nature of "do a good deed", this request, while legitimate now, will almost certainly be showing up in mass emails 5 or 10 years from now. |
Pawly Send message Joined: 13 Jan 07 Posts: 2694 Credit: 1,049,945 RAC: 0 |
Brian, While you and I see this from different sides of the fence, I want you to know that I am glad you brought this point to light and maybe we can participate AND delete the thread when the 1st of June rolls around in a week and a half. Thank you for taking the time to calmly state your position. We could learn a lesson from you. Paul DONATE TO SETI |
Darth Dogbytes™ Send message Joined: 30 Jul 03 Posts: 7512 Credit: 2,021,148 RAC: 0 |
Brian, you have a very good point also especially about Guiness, but consider this as well, maybe they know that but their child doesn't. Could they be supporting a fantasy for the sake of a possibly terminally ill child? Sure, it's a second guess as well, so who knows, but I definitely agree that this thread probably should be locked on June 1st. Account frozen... |
Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
The "you'd understand if you've been through it" stuff is presumptuous and somewhat offensive, but I'm going to let it go. First of all, being offensive was not what I had in mind. I'm not that type of person. You simply misinterpreted the message. Please explain to me in detail how the above quote could ever be offensive. Sir, I have one more question for you. Have you ever seen the broken look on the face of a terminally ill child? I know I have. Please understand here that we are not grabbing anyone by the throat and forcing them to do something against their will. This was just a simple post to raise awarness. Participation is purely voluntarily. "Heh....and then we wonder why aliens don't want to contact us!" |
Darth Dogbytes™ Send message Joined: 30 Jul 03 Posts: 7512 Credit: 2,021,148 RAC: 0 |
Shane's card is in the post today... Account frozen... |
Pawly Send message Joined: 13 Jan 07 Posts: 2694 Credit: 1,049,945 RAC: 0 |
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Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
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Dune_Finkleberry Send message Joined: 25 Feb 06 Posts: 6454 Credit: 198,656 RAC: 0 |
Shane's card is in the post today... Got mine in Monday. Account frozen... |
Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
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Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
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Dune_Finkleberry Send message Joined: 25 Feb 06 Posts: 6454 Credit: 198,656 RAC: 0 |
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Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
Even though the kid's birthday is still four days away, I would like to thank each and everyone of you who participated in this good deed. Thank you folks! MF |
Darth Dogbytes™ Send message Joined: 30 Jul 03 Posts: 7512 Credit: 2,021,148 RAC: 0 |
My pleasure... Account frozen... |
Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
One day to go folks for Shane's birthday! |
Maltese Falcon Send message Joined: 15 May 99 Posts: 117 Credit: 2,066,849 RAC: 9 |
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHANE! I hope you have a wonderful day and may God bless you today and always. Get well soon little buddy. @All Thank you so much for taking the time to visit this thread and for any consideration you might have shown. @Pawly If you feel compelled to put down this thread, please do so at your convenience. Thanks |
Pawly Send message Joined: 13 Jan 07 Posts: 2694 Credit: 1,049,945 RAC: 0 |
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Darth Dogbytes™ Send message Joined: 30 Jul 03 Posts: 7512 Credit: 2,021,148 RAC: 0 |
I can't see my light blue Hallmark envelope in that picture... ...the card I sent him had penguins on the front of it. I hope all goes well on Shane's birthday, and that he will see many more. Account frozen... |
Fuzzy Hollynoodles Send message Joined: 3 Apr 99 Posts: 9659 Credit: 251,998 RAC: 0 |
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Pawly Send message Joined: 13 Jan 07 Posts: 2694 Credit: 1,049,945 RAC: 0 |
A BIG THANK YOU to all that participated. Even those who opposed this idea. Looking at alternative viewpoints makes all of us better informed and more able to respond to other people better in the future. Let us all hope that someday all these terrible diseases can be a thing of the past. *MODS* Please lock this thread and if possible delete it when it hits the second page. DONATE TO SETI |
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