I believe that if some one loves you, part of you lives
with in their hearts for as long as they are alive.....
I just believe that of the ones that I love whom are now
gone away from me.....

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I believe that if some one loves you, part of you lives
with in their hearts for as long as they are alive.....
I just believe that of the ones that I love whom are now
gone away from me.....

In our hearts, as well as in our memories.....

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Donald
Infernal Optimist / Submariner, retired

As I had lost my second wife, I know how lonely a person can be when losing a spouse. I had lost my soul mate. I know my second wife knew somehow she was going to die. Because she kept talking about, When I die if I dont like the girl you are dating I will haunt you. Well she kept her word.It wasnt untill I met my now wife, That the hauntings stopped.
So I do belive a bond can go beyond death. And I do have another soulmate.

And Julie, I have found its the, What ifs that can drive you crazy. Just be confident that You have two angels looking out for you.

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Old James

Thank you for the good advice guys, really appreciated.

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God bless you Julie ...

I think what Annie says is so true ...

It's nice when those roads meet though isn't it, and we can walk awhile together, and maybe help each other through the dark bits.

... and yes indeed ...

thank you ... Ladies and Gents ... Guys and Gals ... for all your good advice and help ...

James Sotherden
Donald L. Johnson
Annie
celttooth
Grant Nelson
zoom314
Sirius B
Uli
Angela
Bernie Vine
Gordon Lowe
Lynn
Chris S
Mike
TimeLord04
Zapped Sparky
Es99

and ...

... and all in our SETI@home community.

how are you all feelling to day ???

I hope you all have a good today.
enjoy your day
Best Wishes
Byron

As I had lost my second wife, I know how lonely a person can be when losing a spouse. I had lost my soul mate. I know my second wife knew somehow she was going to die. Because she kept talking about, When I die if I dont like the girl you are dating I will haunt you. Well she kept her word.It wasnt untill I met my now wife, That the hauntings stopped.
So I do belive a bond can go beyond death. And I do have another soulmate.

And Julie, I have found its the, What ifs that can drive you crazy. Just be confident that You have two angels looking out for you.

Seppe wrote a poem 3 days before his death, I posted it before in the poetry corner, it was about not grieving when he dies, it was called Beautiful Flower I think, can't remember, found it on his Last FM account. I was in shock when I read it! He also knew... Difficult to find someone like Seppe, VERY difficult, we were one, and sometimes I have the feeling we still are one way or another. Have a BF now, he's a good person, didn't have an easy life either, in foster homes his whole youth... He understands very well and listens to everything I say about Seppe. He has more problems with you guys, gets jealous at times...:(
Thing is, Seppe will slowly fade away but will remain with me forever, hard to explain...

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As I had lost my second wife, I know how lonely a person can be when losing a spouse. I had lost my soul mate. I know my second wife knew somehow she was going to die. Because she kept talking about, When I die if I dont like the girl you are dating I will haunt you. Well she kept her word.It wasnt untill I met my now wife, That the hauntings stopped.
So I do belive a bond can go beyond death. And I do have another soulmate.

And Julie, I have found its the, What ifs that can drive you crazy. Just be confident that You have two angels looking out for you.

Seppe wrote a poem 3 days before his death, I posted it before in the poetry corner, it was about not grieving when he dies, it was called Beautiful Flower I think, can't remember, found it on his Last FM account. I was in shock when I read it! He also knew... Difficult to find someone like Seppe, VERY difficult, we were one, and sometimes I have the feeling we still are one way or another. Have a BF now, he's a good person, didn't have an easy life either, in foster homes his whole youth... He understands very well and listens to everything I say about Seppe. He has more problems with you guys, gets jealous at times...:(
Thing is, Seppe will slowly fade away but will remain with me forever, hard to explain...

I totally understand what you meanö.

I think thats normal.
Someone you really love will remain in your heart forever.

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With each crime and every kindness we birth our future.

As I had lost my second wife, I know how lonely a person can be when losing a spouse. I had lost my soul mate. I know my second wife knew somehow she was going to die. Because she kept talking about, When I die if I dont like the girl you are dating I will haunt you. Well she kept her word.It wasnt untill I met my now wife, That the hauntings stopped.
So I do belive a bond can go beyond death. And I do have another soulmate.

And Julie, I have found its the, What ifs that can drive you crazy. Just be confident that You have two angels looking out for you.

Seppe wrote a poem 3 days before his death, I posted it before in the poetry corner, it was about not grieving when he dies, it was called Beautiful Flower I think, can't remember, found it on his Last FM account. I was in shock when I read it! He also knew... Difficult to find someone like Seppe, VERY difficult, we were one, and sometimes I have the feeling we still are one way or another. Have a BF now, he's a good person, didn't have an easy life either, in foster homes his whole youth... He understands very well and listens to everything I say about Seppe. He has more problems with you guys, gets jealous at times...:(
Thing is, Seppe will slowly fade away but will remain with me forever, hard to explain...

I totally understand what you meanö.

I think thats normal.
Someone you really love will remain in your heart forever.

Thank you for finding it normal Mike:) Sometimes life is like a movie... Gonna write a book one day...

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I`ve heard many times that women also remember their first "Love" (relationship).

I have no clue i married my first Love.
Thats 34 years ago next month.

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With each crime and every kindness we birth our future.

I`ve heard many times that women also remember their first "Love" (relationship).

I have no clue i married my first Love.
Thats 34 years ago next month.

That's so beautiful Mike:) You don't see that a lot anymore nowadays...

[edit] Give my regards to Rosie:)

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I`ve heard many times that women also remember their first "Love" (relationship).

I have no clue i married my first Love.
Thats 34 years ago next month.

That's so beautiful Mike:) You don't see that a lot anymore nowadays...

[edit] Give my regards to Rosie:)

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

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With each crime and every kindness we birth our future.

I`ve heard many times that women also remember their first "Love" (relationship).

I have no clue i married my first Love.
Thats 34 years ago next month.

That's so beautiful Mike:) You don't see that a lot anymore nowadays...

[edit] Give my regards to Rosie:)

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

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I`ve heard many times that women also remember their first "Love" (relationship).

I have no clue i married my first Love.
Thats 34 years ago next month.

That's so beautiful Mike:) You don't see that a lot anymore nowadays...

[edit] Give my regards to Rosie:)

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Agreed.
Evenso we need to talk about the definition first.

Most people laughing at me that i care about everything.
But thats the way i want to be.
The world would have less problems if more people would care more imho.

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With each crime and every kindness we birth our future.

Thank you Byron for your post of thanks to everyone in our lovely SETI community :)

I know it's a digression, for which I hope you will forgive me, but a number of years ago, I remember reading about a theory (relating to the way we are formed at conception and beyond) about how brain, heart and upper arm cells were all part of the same cell mass that subsequently divided and differentiated. It suggested that our hearts may not just be responding to chemical signals from the brain when we're grieve. I can't find a link to it at the moment, but I've found this in the meantime: does the heart have a memory? I've popped it here for those who might be interested. You don't have to read it if you don't want to :)

It is wonderful that both you Julie, and James, have found someone who understands your love for the soulmates that you lost... not everyone does :( and Mike :) I'm so glad you still have your true love! It's put a HUGE smile on my face :)

I'll finish by quoting Byron :)

how are you all feeling to day ???

I hope you all have a good day today.
enjoy your day
Best Wishes
Byron

+ a number WAY too big for this page! :)

I`ve heard many times that women also remember their first "Love" (relationship).

I have no clue i married my first Love.
Thats 34 years ago next month.

That's so beautiful Mike:) You don't see that a lot anymore nowadays...

[edit] Give my regards to Rosie:)

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Julie I know a lady here who is 93 and married for 70 years, she feels as strong about him now as back then. She said "I just know he's waiting for me when the time comes" love goes a long way.

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Cheers everybody
Life is short so don't sip
Beer speaks, people mumble

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Agreed.
Evenso we need to talk about the definition first.

Most people laughing at me that i care about everything.
But thats the way i want to be.
The world would have less problems if more people would care more imho.

+ 1000 raised to infinity squared - is that a number? It is now.

Um... Did someone mention normal? :)

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Agreed.
Evenso we need to talk about the definition first.

Most people laughing at me that i care about everything.
But thats the way i want to be.
The world would have less problems if more people would care more imho.

+ 1000 raised to infinity squared - is that a number? It is now.

Um... Did someone mention normal? :)

Thank you for being here Annie:)

@Grant: Know what you mean... If it weren't for his death, we would've grown old together...

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I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Agreed.
Evenso we need to talk about the definition first.

Most people laughing at me that i care about everything.
But thats the way i want to be.
The world would have less problems if more people would care more imho.

+ 1000 raised to infinity squared - is that a number? It is now.

Um... Did someone mention normal? :)

Thank you for being here Annie:)

@Grant: Know what you mean... If it weren't for his death, we would've grown old together...

Julie I have no answers for your feelings, I have had some sad situations which I won't get into, but just be strong you have your kids that count on you more than anything else. they love you and that's NOW.

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Cheers everybody
Life is short so don't sip
Beer speaks, people mumble

I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Agreed.
Evenso we need to talk about the definition first.

Most people laughing at me that i care about everything.
But thats the way i want to be.
The world would have less problems if more people would care more imho.

+ 1000 raised to infinity squared - is that a number? It is now.

Um... Did someone mention normal? :)

Thank you for being here Annie:)

@Grant: Know what you mean... If it weren't for his death, we would've grown old together...

Julie I have no answers for your feelings, I have had some sad situations which I won't get into, but just be strong you have your kids that count on you more than anything else. they love you and that's NOW.

I know Grant, I know, and they're here right now!:)) They will grow older and live their own life, I know:) I'll do everything in my power to give them the best life and all the love they deserve and they know that.

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I`M totally aware that i`m not normal LOL.

Haven't seen a lot of normal people around here, have you?:)))

Agreed.
Evenso we need to talk about the definition first.

Most people laughing at me that i care about everything.
But thats the way i want to be.
The world would have less problems if more people would care more imho.

+ 1000 raised to infinity squared - is that a number? It is now.

Um... Did someone mention normal? :)

Thank you for being here Annie:)

@Grant: Know what you mean... If it weren't for his death, we would've grown old together...

Julie I have no answers for your feelings, I have had some sad situations which I won't get into, but just be strong you have your kids that count on you more than anything else. they love you and that's NOW.

I know Grant, I know, and they're here right now!:)) They will grow older and live their own life, I know:) I'll do everything in my power to give them the best life and all the love they deserve and they know that.

And so do we :)