Darwin Was Wrong About Dating

Interesting article from the New York Times explaining how when proper studies are done, supposed gender differences between how men and women date are actually non-existent.

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I'll take the lack of a response, after 22 hours, as a no; i.e., it's acceptable for me to look like this. :)

Is your name John Malkovich?

Nope, I'm Chumlee from "Pawn Stars" on the History Channel. :)

I'll take the lack of a response, after 22 hours, as a no; i.e., it's acceptable for me to look like this. :)

Is your name John Malkovich?

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Are you saying this is an unacceptable look for me?

I'll take the lack of a response, after 22 hours, as a no; i.e., it's acceptable for me to look like this. :)

Are you saying this is an unacceptable look for me?

Makes a change from women being single because they are too fat or too old or their boobs aren't big enough.

I think men should make an effort to look good. It shows they care about themselves.

No disagreement here

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So, you (plural) think ALL men that are single are single because all they do/say is "look, I can win you bread" and do not treat women as equals?

Nah, they are single because their butts aren't cute and they don't have 6 pac abs. ;-)

Makes a change from women being single because they are too fat or too old or their boobs aren't big enough.

I think men should make an effort to look good. It shows they care about themselves.

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So, you (plural) think ALL men that are single are single because all they do/say is "look, I can win you bread" and do not treat women as equals?

Nah, they are single because their butts aren't cute and they don't have 6 pac abs. ;-)

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So, you (plural) think ALL men that are single are single because all they do/say is "look, I can win you bread" and do not treat women as equals?

& treating them as equals helps.

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Think again, Es.

What I think is that men haven't caught on to the fact that they need to raise their game. Things have changed and they have to offer a little more than just being a good breadwinner.

They might also have to re-examine their expectations and their approach.

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Between contraception and the subsidy of women with children there is a hole

generation of neets in japan and Nintendo kids in the US were young men do not

even try to com-peat for women in there life because they know they won't be

chosen, not when they see the girls that are available choosing the same short

list of guy's that because they can treat women badly.

lol

I am not joking many women date men solely because other women are dating them

men not dating are automatically suspect.

uh huh...and I am sure they keep telling themselves that.

Think again, Es.

Between contraception and the subsidy of women with children there is a hole

generation of neets in japan and Nintendo kids in the US were young men do not

even try to com-peat for women in there life because they know they won't be

chosen, not when they see the girls that are available choosing the same short

list of guy's that because they can treat women badly.

lol

I am not joking many women date men solely because other women are dating them

men not dating are automatically suspect.

uh huh...and I am sure they keep telling themselves that.

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Reality Internet Personality

Between contraception and the subsidy of women with children there is a hole

generation of neets in japan and Nintendo kids in the US were young men do not

even try to com-peat for women in there life because they know they won't be

chosen, not when they see the girls that are available choosing the same short

list of guy's that because they can treat women badly.

lol

I am not joking many women date men solely because other women are dating them

men not dating are automatically suspect.

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Between contraception and the subsidy of women with children there is a hole

generation of neets in japan and Nintendo kids in the US were young men do not

even try to com-peat for women in there life because they know they won't be

chosen, not when they see the girls that are available choosing the same short

list of guy's that because they can treat women badly.

lol

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Reality Internet Personality

Between contraception and the subsidy of women with children there is a hole

generation of neets in japan and Nintendo kids in the US were young men do not

even try to com-peat for women in there life because they know they won't be

chosen, not when they see the girls that are available choosing the same short

list of guy's that because they can treat women badly.

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It has been, unfortunately, socially acceptable for people to share widely and loudly with others their mental illnesses and other such things. I blame 1/2 of the Seattle grunge music movement.

Really done here.
There is a reason that all things gender related all go to the men.

Sperm freaking rules. Selects everything. Gender, the wonders of life, full bag of toys, where did my Mom go, 6++.

My mom had alcohol problems........
Very bad.
So, I was born with certain, shall we say, a couple of screws loose.
Yes, I can admit and convey that now........even though is is NOT politically correct to admit so. I am socially inconvienienced..........
I can't seem to relate to some of you unless I am six sheets.

Now, perhaps you know.

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"Learn from yesterday. Live for today. Hope for tomorrow." Albert Einstein
"With cats." kittyman

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle thinking?

Something like that.

Feminism took women out of the kitchen and into the workplace (although for most of history they never left). Women were meant to be able to have everything a man had. A fulfilling career and a family.

However, this meant that men were supposed to take up some of the traditional women's roles. Such as help with the domestic arrangements and the childrearing.

Not enough men did this (and who can blame them, traditional women's work is pretty much all the crap that no one else wants to do) and women found themselves having to be superwomen doing it all. Which is impossible. They also discovered that as they were now earning, the men who refused to adapt to this new paradigm became pretty much useless. It was easier for a woman in a lot of instances to remain single.

In the instances where men are able to adapt and take on more traditionally female roles, both parties in the relationship thrive.

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A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle thinking?

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Janice