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Message 981340 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 23:34:36 UTC - in response to Message 981327.  

I haven't been myself for months and now I am sorted thank you all for your knid comments u will neva know how much u all have helped !

Take that Vacation you talked about, don't beg her to come back it won't be worth it. I ended up in St Thomas USVI after breaking up with a girl, glad I did. She has been divorced twice since and gained about 200 lbs.
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Message 981342 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 23:38:20 UTC

They don't have to be divorced to do that...oops, was that my outside voice?
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Message 981378 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 0:32:12 UTC - in response to Message 981196.  

If not, you likely don't want to hear this right now, but you may be better off without her.

My sympathies Dave. Since this isn't the first time this has happened I'm with Kenzie on this.
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Message 981395 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 0:50:44 UTC

I had a GF do a very similar thing to me. Am now happily married to someone else.

I wish you good luck on finding someone else to share your life with.


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Message 981404 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 1:03:07 UTC

Better to find out now rather than to live with the scieco for the rest of your life.
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Message 981409 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 1:12:14 UTC
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My Brother had married twice, Divorced both and before He died, He had the 2nd marriage annulled as He was converting to Catholicism(He wanted a Priest), Like His 1st Ex and His Youngest Daughter did, The whole rest of the family considered His 2nd wife to be nothing but a Gold Digger and My Dad and I both had misgivings at My Brothers 2nd wedding(We'd both attended Jims 1st wedding when I was 8 or 9yrs old). As the 2nd wife had to take care of Her Dad or so was said, We never met Him. She inherited nothing as there wasn't much there to inherit anyway. :D
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Message 981513 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 6:36:54 UTC

I am sorry to hear that you are in pain now, but I suspect that a marriage without mutual love would cause you much more pain in the long run.

I wish you peace and happiness.

Fondly,
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Message 981556 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 8:15:07 UTC

Never amrried.......to schizo to do it........
Have been in love with one gurl or another for most of my life.........they were just not up to the task.

Lori is the closest I ever cams.

Going on a 25 year affair now.
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Message 981564 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 8:27:58 UTC - in response to Message 981170.  

well further to my other post about getting married, is all off, we have split up. All i can say is I am devastated, shes just fallen out of love with me, I am all screwed up as you can imagine....


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Sorry dude!
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Message 981574 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 9:19:20 UTC

Sorry to here that.
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Message 981604 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 11:17:36 UTC
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All is said i´m sorry for you.
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Message 981653 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 14:49:12 UTC

Hope it does not bother you too much.

I may seem insensitive, but in the long run..........
Forget the........Expletive deleted by user.

They are more trouble than they are worth.
Unless you need offspring.

Dude, get over it.

You can do better, I am sure.
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Message 981662 - Posted: 20 Mar 2010, 15:30:15 UTC
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Sorry about it all Dave, but it will get better.
Nothing is more painful than losing someone you love.
I and many others have been there. Time is a great healer.

I agree, take that vacation.
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Message 982356 - Posted: 22 Mar 2010, 0:40:01 UTC - in response to Message 981662.  

well all be and done i am going on a break, what i wud love to see is the equipment that does seti - eric? you reading this lol
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Message 982509 - Posted: 22 Mar 2010, 22:13:33 UTC - in response to Message 982356.  

well all be and done i am going on a break, what i wud love to see is the equipment that does seti - eric? you reading this lol

Send him a PM and arrange for a visit at either SSL Berkeley or Aricebo (or both).


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Message 983031 - Posted: 24 Mar 2010, 11:20:25 UTC


@ Dave . . . 'what will be - will be' Momma said

< a tour would be something to put your head in a very different space -

'a distraction well worth iT' . . . be well my friend and live each day for itself . . .


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Message 983093 - Posted: 24 Mar 2010, 15:32:43 UTC - in response to Message 982356.  
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Dave, if you (or anyone else) visit Berkeley, you need only ask to get a tour of the facilities here.

Just let us know your schedule with as much advance notice as you can.

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Message 983094 - Posted: 24 Mar 2010, 15:39:38 UTC - in response to Message 983093.  

Dave, if you (or anyone else) visit Berkeley, you need only ask to get a tour of the facilities here.

Just let us know your schedule with as much advance notice as you can.

Eric

Thats awesome Eric, I am hoping to stop by on my next trip to visit my Grand Daughter, will give you as much notice as I can. Take them up on it Dave, California is a great place to lose yourself!
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Message 983250 - Posted: 24 Mar 2010, 21:55:51 UTC

Guys girls and aliens, what can I say other than thankyou for your support through this hard time. I have now come to realise that I am better off out of that relationship no matter how hard it is right now.

If it hadn't of been for people here and my family and friends I don't think I would have coped

Eric thanks for the offer gunna save my pennies and someday I hope to come over

Thank you so much
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Message 983256 - Posted: 24 Mar 2010, 22:12:44 UTC - in response to Message 983250.  

Guys girls and aliens, what can I say other than thankyou for your support through this hard time. I have now come to realise that I am better off out of that relationship no matter how hard it is right now.

If it hadn't of been for people here and my family and friends I don't think I would have coped

Eric thanks for the offer gunna save my pennies and someday I hope to come over

Thank you so much



I'm glad to hear that you are gaining a sense of perspective - self-respect, too. No, its never easy, but keep a sense of your own worth and you won't go too far wrong at this time. Chin up and my best hopes.




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