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Message 981170 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 20:58:49 UTC

well further to my other post about getting married, is all off, we have split up. All i can say is I am devastated, shes just fallen out of love with me, I am all screwed up as you can imagine....
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Message 981172 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:00:18 UTC

Dave--really sorry to hear that. Please try to keep your head up.....hopefully she'll come around and come back to the best guy she'll ever know :)


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Message 981175 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:01:58 UTC

Blurf, its not gunna happen she did this last year when she walked out of the house, its not right, damn I am 30 years old and blubbing like a baby
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Message 981182 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:04:22 UTC - in response to Message 981175.  

thanks to whoever removed the other post - greatly appraicated
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Message 981185 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:04:33 UTC

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Message 981186 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:05:10 UTC

I can imagine how you feel. But try to talk with her. Maybe she is changing her minds.


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Message 981192 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:10:55 UTC

we have talked tonight and shes firm on her feelings, I am gunna go take my share of the money and go on holiday for a couple of weeks visit some friends in finland and maybe my uncle in USA.
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Message 981193 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:14:47 UTC

Running away isnt a good choice. Be a man and fight for her.
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Message 981196 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:18:09 UTC
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Hi Dave

It could be she panicked, in which case, give her a few days. If not, you likely don't want to hear this right now, but you may be better off without her.

Believe me, there are a lot of women out there looking for that most elusive of quarry: a good man.

You will eventually find the perfect Mrs. Dave and when you do, this one will fade to a distant memory.

In the meanwhile, have a few glasses, shed a few tears and accept my sympathies.
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Message 981200 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:23:51 UTC

tried to mate, its been off for a week now, i cant do anymore, i wish i could, anyway i am looking at it this way i can replace my car:





That was last year, the cars been been repaired but its not the same....

I only didnt buy a new one cause I was getting married, so g[img]ess where I am going tomorrow![/img]
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Message 981207 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:39:03 UTC

Don't do this alone...find a counselor, friend. It will help with time and a patient ear.


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Message 981213 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 21:50:24 UTC - in response to Message 981207.  

Don't do this alone...find a counselor, friend. It will help with time and a patient ear.

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If you care to pm me Im all ears. I have only my own tales which I wont bore the public with ... but ... I have a few things you might want to consider. I have learned a few things by my experiences and am not a counsellor by any means but a man who has loved and lost, and lost hard, but I am not negative about it anymore. I understand the tears all to well but am happier in the short term. Let the tears flow. Take the time and wait and see what she says. Enough said for now but do pm me if you care to chat.

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Message 981225 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 22:01:17 UTC

So sorry to hear this Dave...
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Message 981230 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 22:02:39 UTC

What's so wrong about being free and single?
Soon enough, you'll realize that she actually did you a favour by not going through with the wedding.

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Message 981270 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 22:31:53 UTC - in response to Message 981230.  

Yes it may seem awful now but it sure beats an ugly divorce a couple years and kids from now. Be happy for her and yourself that she was good enough to let you know she didn't feel right about it and move on.


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Message 981276 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 22:35:14 UTC - in response to Message 981230.  
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What's so wrong about being free and single?
Soon enough, you'll realize that she actually did you a favour by not going through with the wedding.

I sign off knowing there's a storm coming my way.

Lets see some say Men live longer while married than single, Not that I believe that, My Grandpa was married twice, He outlived both the 1st and the 2nd wife and was said to have died of being lonely.
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Message 981312 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 23:14:03 UTC - in response to Message 981170.  

well further to my other post about getting married, is all off, we have split up. All i can say is I am devastated, shes just fallen out of love with me, I am all screwed up as you can imagine....

I'm really sorry to hear this Dave, but as others have said, better to find out now before it's too late.

And I liked being single and was quite happy that way. I had my freedom, my independence and I never had to take anyone else's feeling's into consideration when making decisions.
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Message 981313 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 23:14:29 UTC - in response to Message 981230.  

What's so wrong about being free and single?
Soon enough, you'll realize that she actually did you a favour by not going through with the wedding.

I sign off knowing there's a storm coming my way.


No storms here anymore :) Just a bright future.

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Message 981318 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 23:16:26 UTC

My brother had a girl he was deeply in love with for years and my brother was talking marriage. She dumped him for a commune and my brother badly hurt. Flash forward to today. His wife (another woman) and him have two teen age kids and the other girl is a distant memory. Take some time and hang out with a friend or family till the hurt is not so bad and then make start making plans again. Right now you shouldn't do anything other than getting over the hurt.
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Message 981327 - Posted: 19 Mar 2010, 23:22:20 UTC

I haven't been myself for months and now I am sorted thank you all for your knid comments u will neva know how much u all have helped !
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