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消息 519987 - 发表于:19 Feb 2007, 20:43:58 UTC - 回复消息 519908.  
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However there are some guys that really do deserve to be put up there....*goes to log in...*


Es, I swear I am innocent ...
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Women have to work at it too, but maybe they put more value on it, I don't know. I certainly wouldn't say it's easy.


Relationships never are. Generally speaking women are more emotional then men, that is where a lot of the problems can stem from. I'm not sure about all this "we're best mates" angle. For whats its worth, if theres mutual love, mutual respect, a shared vision of the future, and a genuine partnership, its got a good chance of succeeding.

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Odd, I would say that men do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so we're even.

I would agree with this only because this comes natural to women... While us guys have to work at it.

Women have to work at it too, but maybe they put more value on it, I don't know. I certainly wouldn't say it's easy.


actually, (and it was just on NBC News this morn') Men more , or less - Internalize their Emotional Aspects / Feelings - and it has been found to be very 'dangerous' (due to the Report of many suicides - or thoughts of) . . .

in my case (if u don't mind ;)) - i have a habit of speaking out as much as possible - even though MOST people don't take this time - nor do most have the time (so they say) to actually want to talk it out in it's entirety . . .

btw - the 'Original LINK' Don't Date Him Girl is a Site (see for yourselves) where woman have had 'situations with' different Men and Post there . . . ;))

< Q. has anybody looked @ said site?



I think I posted that site on the team boards a while ago. I have to admit I agree with Pawly...often people come out of relationships with bad feelings about the other person. I wouldn't take those girl's views as objective. However there are some guys that really do deserve to be put up there....*goes to log in...*
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well . . . bEforE *u* continuE to do so, bEttEr

chECk out Don't Date HIM Girl . . . ;)

Now that's a nasty little site! Women are cruel creatures. I read a thread and it seems if you offend a "Girl" for what ever reason (the one I read had email copies attached and HE was polite and SHE was......not my type lol), she can post a warning to other "Girls".

I prefer my "WOMAN". She actually gets too know someone before misreading/misinterpretting an email and making up her mind.

Why do women think that all men act like dogs? I could tell ya a few stories of women who are not too ladylike.....but I'm not going to start an internet site! lol

EDIT: Just did a search of my name......thank God i'm not listed......yet.
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Odd, I would say that men do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so we're even.

I would agree with this only because this comes natural to women... While us guys have to work at it.

Women have to work at it too, but maybe they put more value on it, I don't know. I certainly wouldn't say it's easy.


actually, (and it was just on NBC News this morn') Men more , or less - Internalize their Emotional Aspects / Feelings - and it has been found to be very 'dangerous' (due to the Report of many suicides - or thoughts of) . . .

in my case (if u don't mind ;)) - i have a habit of speaking out as much as possible - even though MOST people don't take this time - nor do most have the time (so they say) to actually want to talk it out in it's entirety . . .

btw - the 'Original LINK' Don't Date Him Girl is a Site (see for yourselves) where woman have had 'situations with' different Men and Post there . . . ;))

< Q. has anybody looked @ said site?



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Odd, I would say that men do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so we're even.

I would agree with this only because this comes natural to women... While us guys have to work at it.

Women have to work at it too, but maybe they put more value on it, I don't know. I certainly wouldn't say it's easy.
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Odd, I would say that men do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so we're even.

I would agree with this only because this comes natural to women... While us guys have to work at it.
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..but women do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so what's your point?


Men have only very rudimentary and underdeveloped emotions. The best we can manage is anger, puzzlement, and a kind of vague smugness.

And no, libido does not count as an emotion.
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datin' someonE rEcEntly

You're dating nEz?

Ain't nEz a happily married man who's very devoted to his wife?

SupposEdly.

No...That would be Pez.

Nez is dating Pez?

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datin' someonE rEcEntly

You're dating nEz?

Ain't nEz a happily married man who's very devoted to his wife?

SupposEdly.

No...That would be Pez.

Nez is dating Pez?
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You're dating nEz?

Ain't nEz a happily married man who's very devoted to his wife?

SupposEdly.

No...That would be Pez.

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You're dating nEz?

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You're dating nEz?


Ain't nEz a happily married man who's very devoted to his wife?



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Turn about is fair play:

Don't you mean childs play?

At what age does one start regressing back to adolescence? ;)
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消息 519489 - 发表于:18 Feb 2007, 21:53:36 UTC - 回复消息 519486.  

I wasn't referring to what the guy said. I said, turn about is fair play.

You're weird

No, because he doesn't want to put up with a slob and the habits that only a father could love.

You're wrong..

Odd, I would say that men do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so we're even.

You're weird and wrong

Heh, "out of thin air."

See above.
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Not getting that from what the guy said...how does wanting to be treated nice give you the idea that she doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship?

I wasn't referring to what the guy said. I said, turn about is fair play.

Why? because she doesn't want to put up with a slob and the habits only a mother would love?

No, because he doesn't want to put up with a slob and the habits that only a father could love.

..but women do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so what's your point?

Odd, I would say that men do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so we're even.

Exactly..which is why I did a 'read between the lines' of what this individual guy was saying about women. You just plucked your comments out of thin air.

Heh, "out of thin air."
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Turn about is fair play:

In other words:
1. Low-maintenance mamas drive them wild. Men love women who don’t have to be wined, dined and pampered every minute of every day. Men don’t like demanding divas who constantly need attention. If you can hold your own, your man will love it!

Men can't really bothered and just want a relationship they don't have to put any effort into...

Women can't really bothered and just want a relationship they don't have to put any effort into...

Not getting that from what the guy said...how does wanting to be treated nice give you the idea that she doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship?

2. His bad habits don’t turn her off…at least not all the way. If your man’s got a few bad habits, like belching and the like, it’s certainly not attractive, but if you can deal, he’ll appreciate you for it!

..what he really wants is a mother who will love him unconditionally...

...what she really wants is a father who will love her unconditionally...

Why? because she doesn't want to put up with a slob and the habits only a mother would love?

3. You’ve got his quirky sense of humor. Do you laugh hysterically at his not-so-funny jokes? In his eyes, you’re a keeper.

...and even though he doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship himself, you can sure as hell bet that he expects you to.

...and even though she doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship herself, you can sure as hell bet that she expects you to.

..but women do most of the emotional work in a relationship anyway...so what's your point?

Referring to an entire gender, 3.5 BILLION people, like this, means absolutely nothing.

Exactly..which is why I did a 'read between the lines' of what this individual guy was saying about women. You just plucked your comments out of thin air.


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Turn about is fair play:

In other words:
1. Low-maintenance mamas drive them wild. Men love women who don’t have to be wined, dined and pampered every minute of every day. Men don’t like demanding divas who constantly need attention. If you can hold your own, your man will love it!

Men can't really bothered and just want a relationship they don't have to put any effort into...

Women can't really bothered and just want a relationship they don't have to put any effort into...

2. His bad habits don’t turn her off…at least not all the way. If your man’s got a few bad habits, like belching and the like, it’s certainly not attractive, but if you can deal, he’ll appreciate you for it!

..what he really wants is a mother who will love him unconditionally...

...what she really wants is a father who will love her unconditionally...

3. You’ve got his quirky sense of humor. Do you laugh hysterically at his not-so-funny jokes? In his eyes, you’re a keeper.

...and even though he doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship himself, you can sure as hell bet that he expects you to.

...and even though she doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship herself, you can sure as hell bet that she expects you to.

Referring to an entire gender, 3.5 BILLION people, like this, means absolutely nothing.
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In other words:

1. Low-maintenance mamas drive them wild. Men love women who don’t have to be wined, dined and pampered every minute of every day. Men don’t like demanding divas who constantly need attention. If you can hold your own, your man will love it!


Men can't really bothered and just want a relationship they don't have to put any effort into...

2. His bad habits don’t turn her off…at least not all the way. If your man’s got a few bad habits, like belching and the like, it’s certainly not attractive, but if you can deal, he’ll appreciate you for it!


..what he really wants is a mother who will love him unconditionally...

3. You’ve got his quirky sense of humor. Do you laugh hysterically at his not-so-funny jokes? In his eyes, you’re a keeper.


...and even though he doesn't want to put any effort into the relationship himself, you can sure as hell bet that he expects you to.

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