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Message 1891477 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 2:25:32 UTC

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Maybe I should look around on ebay and start collecting all those medals I missed.

Or, I could just start over....................
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm.
NOT......LOL.
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Message 1891486 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 4:42:23 UTC

Congrats on the 5 months Mark. Well done sir!
As I stated in another post of yours. I like the new Mark.
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Message 1891487 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 4:47:28 UTC

Thank you James.
I am rather fond of the new Mark myself.....LOL.
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Message 1891501 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 7:46:25 UTC

I think a bad habit is sometimes easier to stop altogether than just cut back on it. I remember trying to give up smoking and would ration myself to say just 5 a day. I'd smoke the 5 and then carry on and finish the packet anyway. In the end I just went cold turkey and haven't smoked for over 10 years.

Basically I'm a beer and wine man, I don't touch the hard stuff. That's not to say I don't enjoy a G&T now and again because I do. But it can be all to easy to have a couple of glasses of beer, get the taste for it and want more. Then before you know it you've had a session. I know some that don't drink a drop all week then go out every Saturday night and get slaughtered!

I think moderation is the key factor here. If you don't have the self discipline to restrict yourself to sensible levels of alcohol i.e. 21 units a week for men, and 14 units for women (UK recommendations), then best not to do it at all.

In the case of Mark, many people only saw the man up front, not the man inside. Yes he'd regularly go on public 6 &12 hour timeouts every w/e, but how many saw him on a Wednesday over in number crunching gladly helping out a newbie with a technical problem, or running a fund raiser. Many people only use the cafe and never got the whole picture.
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Message 1891510 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 10:38:17 UTC

Mark and my friends know....Once a friend always a friend, no matter what.

As a Mod or in private, I had to deal with a lot of s***, but I have not yet felt the need to block someone.
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Message 1891520 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 11:59:53 UTC

Thanks, Chris.
And thanks, Ulihon.

Yes, 'tis true.
Some did know a bit more of who I really was and remained friends regardless.

Meow.
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Message 1891532 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 13:52:30 UTC - in response to Message 1891501.  

In the case of Mark, many people only saw the man up front, not the man inside. Yes he'd regularly go on public 6 &12 hour timeouts every w/e, but how many saw him on a Wednesday over in number crunching gladly helping out a newbie with a technical problem, or running a fund raiser. Many people only use the cafe and never got the whole picture.


A very big thumbs up to that, Chris....but even that would result in flak, elsewhere. It wasn't that hard to 'see' the true Kittyman, but some people just saw what they wanted to.
Don't take life too seriously, as you'll never come out of it alive!
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Message 1891542 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 15:37:32 UTC

Congratulations Mark on FIVE MONTHS!

I KNOW you could do it and will not fall back to the bad days of past.

One day at a time leads to one week at a time and leads to one month at a time and leads to one year.... etc.

Here is to a remaining lifetime of Mark being sober!

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Message 1891545 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 16:15:54 UTC

Thanks, Iona.
As I said earlier....that is part of my past now. And I do not hold any ill will towards others who handled my bad behavior in the manner they wished or needed to. Whether they shall ever forgive me remains to be seen.

And thank you very much, Dr Who Fan.
One day at a time, yup.
I do not intend to slip and fall. Right now I am very confidant I shall not.
But rest assured that after knowing this side of things again, if I ever did, it would not last very long!!

Meeeeeeeeeeeeow.....there goes that kittyman again!
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Message 1891589 - Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 23:52:05 UTC

Congratulations on a double win - 5 months of sobriety and no vacations from the forum!!!
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Message 1891593 - Posted: 24 Sep 2017, 0:42:51 UTC

Thanks, Angela.
Looks like I made it into the double bonus round!!

Meow meow meow!
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