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Message 1682670 - Posted: 22 May 2015, 17:20:59 UTC - in response to Message 1682490.  

Uh Chris... did you just call me, everybody in my profession and anyone who has ever worked in a hospital stupid?


Medical profession is of course excepted, that is a calling to help humanity, not the same thing at all as in a retail or service context. You knew that of course.


No, I did not. But now that you have clarified it, are you calling Miz Julie stupid for working in customer service? Are you calling Ulibelle stupid for helping members of the public understand their taxes?

If "New Chris" insists on making incredibly insensitive and hurtful statements, "New Chris" is going to get called on every gosh darn one of them that I happen to so unfortunately stumble upon.
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Message 1682708 - Posted: 22 May 2015, 18:34:43 UTC - in response to Message 1682670.  

That's where rule #8 enters the scene...

...#8 Use the "ignore" button where required. :-)
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Message 1682709 - Posted: 22 May 2015, 18:36:51 UTC - in response to Message 1682708.  

That's where rule #8 enters the scene...

...#8 Use the "ignore" button where required. :-)



I try to save the "ignore" button for posters who have entirely exhausted my legendary patience. Chris is a friend. Always has been. Always will be.
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Message 1682714 - Posted: 22 May 2015, 18:49:23 UTC
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Young Chris knows that part of my misspent youth
was spent as a peace officer. Young Chris knows
that I always acted with the utmost regard for
civil rights, and law. Besides I am one hell of
a nice person!
Like others, Young Chris can not read the news
papers and not be affected by some of the sadness
reported in them. I hope he thinks I am a friend,
and if he likes I saw another sports story from
Europe.



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Message 1682724 - Posted: 22 May 2015, 19:05:22 UTC - in response to Message 1682709.  

I know, was just being mischievous :-)

However, sometimes a friend has to be cruel to be kind. Hmm, maybe that could be a rule...
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Message 1683157 - Posted: 23 May 2015, 6:16:29 UTC - in response to Message 1682490.  

It has changes since your visit. It is now "Have a good one."

Hey that is much better, I can go along with that.

Uh Chris... did you just call me, everybody in my profession and anyone who has ever worked in a hospital stupid?

Medical profession is of course excepted, that is a calling to help humanity, not the same thing at all as in a retail or service context. You knew that of course.

...#99 - Don't talk to grumpy old fogeys, just smile at them :-)

Good advice, a swift knee in the nuts often hurts :-))

Dealing with the public is never easy, they expect too much and never say thankyou, but at the same time those on the other side of the fence do not help. I swear by all that I hold dear that the next ethnic technical call centre that replies with

[Monotone robot script on]
Thank you for calling XYZ, how may I help you today?
I have an internet problem
I'm sorry to hear that, what is your telephone number please?
I am ringing you from it.
Thank you for that information ......
[Monotone robot script continues ....]

I shall jump off Beachy head and leave all my money to the cats home!

How NOT to deal with the public.

I for one allways say thankyou when I have been waited on or checking out or doing business at the bank.
It pays itself back when you see the same person week after week.
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Message 1683185 - Posted: 23 May 2015, 6:48:56 UTC - in response to Message 1683157.  

I for one always say thank you when I have been waited on or checking out or doing business at the bank.
It pays itself back when you see the same person week after week.

Please, Thank you, and You're Welcome - three phrases that I was taught were mandatory when dealing with others, but seem seldom used nowadays...
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Message 1683188 - Posted: 23 May 2015, 6:56:27 UTC

You people are starting to sound
very much like Canadians....




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Message 1684302 - Posted: 26 May 2015, 1:50:29 UTC

The customer is always right, unless he or she is so completely and utterly wrong that the question doesn't even make sense.
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Message 1684358 - Posted: 26 May 2015, 4:57:33 UTC - in response to Message 1684302.  

The customer is always right, unless he or she is so completely and utterly wrong that the question doesn't even make sense.

No, the Customer is always right. When they become wrong, they cease to be a customer.

Please, thank you, and your are welcome are just a plain must in the service industry. You as a customer don't want the person doing the service for you upset with you. Then you have no idea what that "service" may entail.

On too many occasions I've stopped to comment on how rude or demanding a previous person has been to the help. Never fails to give them a chance to unload, lets them know I'm not an a**hole and they treat me as a different person than the last slob. Add in a smile, please and thank you, then they can deal with others from a much better space. Pay it forward.

I'm sorry is also a wonderful phrase, especially when you know you are going to be a PITA.
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Message 1684413 - Posted: 26 May 2015, 7:17:24 UTC

The Walgreens personnel around here have apparently been instructed to say, "Welcome to Walgreens", and "Be Well" to every human being in the store. If I don't make eye contact with them, I really don't want to be Welcomed because it makes me feel obligated to say something back.
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Message 1684480 - Posted: 26 May 2015, 12:52:49 UTC

Thankfully there is no Walgreens in Barstow CA, though there is a RiteAid Pharmacy, thankfully they don't go in for greeters, though they will ask at the register, 'Is this your first time at RiteAid?'
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Message 1684506 - Posted: 26 May 2015, 15:25:27 UTC - in response to Message 1684413.  

I really don't want to be Welcomed because it makes
me feel obligated to say something back.



Regardless of what any one has said to us, we
have never felt the obligation to reply to any
person based on that happenstance.




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Message 1684582 - Posted: 27 May 2015, 1:06:50 UTC

Please don't aggressively try to sell me something the minute I walk into a store. I like to be left alone to browse. There are stores I totally avoid because of aggressive sales people. I know they don't really want to know how my day is going. I know this because sometimes I tell them if they are really persistent.
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Message 1684769 - Posted: 27 May 2015, 15:14:36 UTC

Customer service jobs are easy to get. I am sort of in one, by virtue of the fact I work as the overnight manager of a hotel, but I'm really much better placed in a back room somewhere. ;~)
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Message 1684782 - Posted: 27 May 2015, 15:52:02 UTC - in response to Message 1684769.  

Customer service jobs are easy to get. I am sort of in one, by virtue of the fact I work as the overnight manager of a hotel, but I'm really much better placed in a back room somewhere. ;~)

I've done them before and it has taught me to have great compassion for those who have to deal with the general public and be polite about it.
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Message 1684788 - Posted: 27 May 2015, 16:13:02 UTC - in response to Message 1684782.  

Customer service jobs are easy to get. I am sort of in one, by virtue of the fact I work as the overnight manager of a hotel, but I'm really much better placed in a back room somewhere. ;~)

I've done them before and it has taught me to have great compassion for those who have to deal with the general public and be polite about it.


Stir in a generous dose of alcohol with the general public I deal with on a nightly basis.
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Message 1684792 - Posted: 27 May 2015, 16:31:26 UTC
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I have been on both sides of the public service fence.
I sold stereo equipment for many years part time. That was rather enjoyable, as most of those I dealt with shared my enthusiasm for music and the equipment to display it at it's best.
I also sold electronic parts and industrial electronics for almost 18 years. Again, those who I dealt with were generally looking for help in a field I had expertise in, so few bad apples there.

I have also been a 'difficult customer' on the other side of the fence. As you may have gleaned from my posting temperament, I can be VERY particular in what I desire and how I am treated as a customer. I don't take NO for an answer, and am not shy about going over someone's head to their superior if I am not getting what I think I deserve. I would not say that I am extremely difficult, but I expect the right answers. And if you cannot provide them, I'll go up the food chain and find somebody who can.

Having said that, I can also say that being a polite customer is always the best way to get the best service. Even if you are a bit demanding, doing it in a polite way and treating the person serving you as an equal, not a servant, is the best way to get what you want.

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