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Message 1196835 - Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 15:35:38 UTC
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It seems I'd thought about dating and I'd done that at least once, but then I got to know that person over a few years, now I wouldn't date any Woman who was older than Me, She'd also have to accept Me for the way I am, flaws and all, it wouldn't hurt if She was richer than Me, plus someone who's open minded and has no problems with progressive thoughts would be good too, but fat chance of any of this happening to Me. Oh and as to religious, I'm not, as I don't belong to any church, too stuffy. I lean Catholic, even though I'm not cause of who influenced Me while I was growing up.
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Message 1196865 - Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 16:24:59 UTC

I will comment on the age thing. My late wife was 3 years older than I was. My now wife is a year older than I am. As long as you are compatible I dont give a hoot what your age difference is. Finding a Companion is damn well hard enough with out throwing self imposed road blocks in the way. Just my 2 cents.
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Message 1196868 - Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 16:28:17 UTC

Very well said Jim.

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Message 1196876 - Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 16:45:29 UTC

I am three years old than Eric. We get along great! I love LOVE and I hope you find it some day, Vic.

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Message 1196884 - Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 17:12:26 UTC
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Well I lived with My mother way too long taking care of Her until she passed away(She needed It), I just don't want to repeat some of that, as She could be downright mean at times. Most of the time I just wanted to hide when She was awake.

I mean If It weren't for My weight(which other problems that I have interfere with), I might be attractive, as It is now I'd attract escargot more than anyone else, even though My Great Uncle lived until He was 94(He passed away 2 years before I was born) and that currently at 51 I still have almost no grey hair as did My older Brother @ 61, just nice thick blond hair(which can be a pain), 6'1" and eyes of blue with no naturally occurring cancer in our family either.
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Message 1197186 - Posted: 19 Feb 2012, 4:20:55 UTC

Vic, try.
There is free sight pof.com List yourself and be honest. Not negative, but honest. And as has been said, don't be too hard and fast with age limits. I have dated people over 20 years younger and about 5 years older, it's not age but commonality. However, I have found that + or - 5 years is the best range for me. The main thing is do you each like to do the things the other does. Not all but does she like some of what you find important and do you like some of what she does? Do you speak the same language, not literally but spiritually. Religion is not a big issue unless it is to her, in which case, run.

Just my 2 cents.

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Message 1197202 - Posted: 19 Feb 2012, 5:49:10 UTC

free sight pof.com


aka plentyoffish dot com

Yep. Good site. Plenty of Dames, Ladies, Chicks, etc.

I gave up on babes a while back. Or they gave up on me. I'm not much of a catch, but I got plenty of bites at plentyoffish.

Someone like you ought to do real well there.

Good Luck.

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Message 1198727 - Posted: 23 Feb 2012, 6:32:06 UTC - in response to Message 1196865.

As long as you are compatible

I am no expert, but what you said is so important
I am lucky, my sweetie and I get along real well. If you got that, what more could you need?
Vic if you find the one, you will know.
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Message 1198731 - Posted: 23 Feb 2012, 6:44:52 UTC - in response to Message 1198727.

As long as you are compatible

I am no expert, but what you said is so important
I am lucky, my sweetie and I get along real well. If you got that, what more could you need?
Vic if you find the one, you will know.

Problem is I don't get out anymore, not unless I go to the market for food, one lady who works there does know Me and that's cause She lives here in the park.
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